...because I am not out to myself enough.
In order to be into someone else, I must do so with outward expression of myself.The kind of outward expression that allows me to be into someone else, takes practice, lots of it.
This type of practice begins by becoming more and more into myself (knowing self and growing into self).
Once this matures enough, reaches the pubescent adult stage of being into myself, then I will have shown I am also out to myself.
My into love of self, shown through expressions, blossoms into being shown through out to love of self, shown through expressions.
Then and only then, is that double primitive love essence of myself (the into myself and out to myself), capable of detecting the soil mate to spirit mate with me.
I must have the capacity to enrich your soil and you must have the capacity to enrich mine, which is only possible by having already enriched our own soils (souls).
I must be firmly rooted in seeking the fruition of my mission, before I can add on, an extension.
No, No, No! Two incompletes or two misguideds, don't make a complete. Oneness is not based on half-ness, but rather twoness.
No, No, No! No one is your better half, or lesser half. Only two wholes make a couple. Two partials might add up to a single, but that state of being single means you must be of one spirit, one mind, one emotion and one body. And that is just not how it works with humans or between any two creations that do not share the same body. It works with hydrogen and oxygen, temporarily, but not between hydrogen and oxygen exclusively with each other. This example is close but not equal to two partial humans because hydrogen and oxygen are both two wholes, which is why they are able to couple and decouple and, either way, not lose themselves or their way. Thus hydrogen and oxygen are able to fulfill individual and joint purposes. In order to be soulmates we must also be spiritmates, and that takes practice, lot of it, as singles before we also try to couple, thus quadruple our twin powers.
If either of us is deficient at the start, or become deficient while “together”, draining is inevitable, sustaining is impossible. However, maintaining whatever the daily new waning current status quo is, is possible, while also being certainly detrimental, a deter to the mental humus-stasity (homeostasis). Thus, also a deterrent and detour to the other three aspects of self that were put together on purpose, coupled into our whole being from the whell of beingness.
Putting In Extra Work For Someone Extra Special, The Loved One, The Love Of Oneness
This reveals that the coupling process is always an experiment.The experiment is to khekh and khep spirits until they mate, match, kheperfectly.
thus each spirit must be a spirit-ment before being ready, willing and able to be spiritmates. Word Ment, of course, means “meant to be,” and “mint to be,”
Word Ment, briefly speaking means, total, whole, complete.
In other words, in order to be soilmates, soulmates and spiritmates, we each must first be a soilment, soulment, spiritment. Thus allow for the khekh-spirit-ment experiment to be successful.
Only then can inward Khe become the outer Ekh and export itself, INTO someone else, something else, while at the same time, importing the return soul and soil. This is the value for value exchange of It Behooves Me.
This can also be further understood through word expert and word experience.
A few other ways to say all this is;
1. The main reason I am not into you, is because I am barely into myself.
2. The main reason I am not into you, is because we are not meant, mint or ment to be complements, completements, two completes whose paths merge at the corners and are able to form a third form of completion for that time being.
No other person can complete me.
I was born complete, but not fully expanded.
I must first grow and develop into sufficient knowledge of myself before I can be of any true equal value, two value with someone else.
