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One option is not a choice but it is child proof
Many of the things I believe, I acquired early on. During childhood, my trust in authority figures such as parents, siblings, relatives, tv, schools and churches was at its zenith. Despite a child's tendency to ask more questions, a child is more likely to believe any answer. I did. I rarely went beyond the answer into individual inquiry from alternate sources. My beliefs were based on the beliefs of those I trusted as a child.
It's pretty easy to get a child to believe in Kris Kringle, who should mingle, some form of God, chastising but sparing the rod, Leprechauns, perfect lawns, groundhog shadows, human chattel, Easter Bunnies, bees dying but not from lack of nutritious honey, pots of gold, new better than old, ghosts, accumulating the most, goblins, problems cost too much to solve them, products for beauty, killing as patriotic duty, Cupid, some people born stupid, tooth fairies who chip in, living pretend and only for weekends, soldiers as policemen, getting hitched cheaper than to un-marry, caged canaries, myth, hiding behind the 5th, superstition, woman's work in the kitchen, folklore, food comes from stores, history lessons, science-based mystery guessing, cheese moons, wedding Junes, wishing wells, working hard you'll always prevail, normal is sex sells, businesses fined instead of jail, corporate veils, looking pretty is about, some kind of clout, what's safe to eat, trick or treat, prescriptions good, herbs backwoods, acceptable wrongs, who belongs, age alone makes you grown, which god-given talents are best, just what is success, flat earth, what has worth, politics and businesses aren't part of gangs, beginning from big bang, from an explosion systems came, what sounds different isn't the same and nearly anythang.
By the mere force of first and only, repetition, participation and duplication by others, these beliefs solidify. Borrowed beliefs can become facts hard to crack. My beliefs became restrictive shells shielding me from possibilities. Beliefs should serve as cocoons allowing me to mature into my higher self (my soul's experience with the Creator combined with the best of my human experience). This is the evolution - an individual growing into a fuller oneness.
As I mature into adulthood, I should be able to loosen my grip on beliefs that were simply given to me. I held my caregiver's hand, then wanted to let go, needed to let go. I may yet hold that hand again, but only if it is the best option available, not because it is easiest, quickest, most readily available, familiar and feels safe.
The nature of human maturation is to have say-so in what I believe and not give this say-so over to beliefs first heard. This is called free will. The Creator wants me to have it and use it. The Creator did not design me to automatically accept his teachings and therefore did not design me to automatically accept any human idea or interpretation, no matter how prevalent the notion.
More than a few unexplored ideas could be helpful, even in part or smidgen. Unless I read, study, investigate, compare and contrast these ideas, I could simply be feeling right by default, if what I believe is the only choice I've ever fully considered. As a result, I have never stopped mindlessly doing as I was told because I've never stopped innocently believing as I was told - proof I've never stopped being a child.
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"Mindfulness is the process of actively noticing new things, relinquishing preconceived mindsets, and then acting on the new observations."
