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Monday, December 12, 2011
36 Facts About Manipulators & Manipulation
Along your path, you will encounter potholes and sink holes planted by manipulators. Manipulation may come from an individual, group, company, institution or government. Regardless, the facts remain the same.
1. A manipulator presents information as “helpful” or “something you need” that does not have any chance of moving you along any pathway to be as the Creator intended.
2. Wants you to believe frequent repetition means something must be true.
3. Does not want you to investigate or consider other points of view.
4. Tries to get you to have an instant negative reaction to ideas different from what you already believe so you'll quickly disregard.
5. Tries to keep you dependent on them for as long as possible.
6. Tries to keep you busy so you don't have time to stay in tune with your spirit.
7. Does not want you to become aware your spirit's intuition is the best expert.
8. Promotes feeling good over being good.
9. Provides constant amounts of distracting information.
10. Wants you to desire simply knowing stuff about other people's lives.
11. A manipulator does not help you focus on what you can learn to help yourself from other people's successes and failures.
12. Wants you to make decisions based on man's legal system rather than Higher Powers and the basics of natural law.
13. The information offered does not help you to become healthy in any way.
14. Wants you to prefer the safety of what you've always believed rather than the determination to transition towards your better self. (See #8, “safety sure feels good”)
15. Treats critical thinking and analyzing as a negative behaviors.
16. A manipulator benefits much more from their supposed assistance to you than you do.
17. Takes advantage of you when you give them your trust.
18. Tries to destroy whoever tries to tell the truth. This is a diversionary tactic. No one who is telling the truth has to use character assassination as their main defense.
19. Uses sympathy, tears and emotions. They are always the victim.
20. Never takes responsibility.
21. Wants you to prefer frequent entertainment rather than pursue ongoing maturity.
22. A manipulator needs you to believe their words more than their actions.
23. Needs you to believe they are the best thing coming and going so their philosophies become your automatic point of reference and only possibility.
24. Depends on your sympathy and feeling of kinship. (If you do not put your emotional self first, their motives can be more easily seen.)(Love and fear are emotions.)
25. Wants you to reach a conclusion based on their information and perspective only.
26. Tries to keep you tired so you don't feel like thinking.
27. The goal is not your independence.
28. Wants you to choose their choices rather than believe you can come to your own conclusions.
29. Wants you to be head-centered rather than spirit-centered.
30. Wants you to separate church from: state, education, science, medicine, work and society. Blessings will not show up in any place God is not allowed.
31. Wants you to “think to make decisions” rather than “sense the spirit's guidance.”
32. Needs you to be limited and stay limited in order to like you or accept you.
33. Does not add to or appreciate your strengthening your knowledge of self.
34. Creates confusion and claims something is controversial to keep you right where you are.
35. Wants you to believe it's not important to learn accurate human history.
36. Wants you to accept what supports the group/country overall but does not support the individual at all.
All these facts boil down to one thing: Manipulators manipulate with lies. The lies are simplistic, not complicated. Those lies are usually the opposite of what is true.
Yet and still, manipulation is no match for the intuitive self, the spirit. Step back from what someone is telling you and stay open to the initial sense you are getting. Is the information trustworthy or not?
Try to keep your brain and emotions from getting in the way. Ask your spiritual self, “Why am I being told this information?” These few steps can help you discern the difference between information that seems right and information that is right.
The journey continues. Now as you encounter those potholes and sinkholes filled with muddy water, you won't mistake them for pools and lakes.
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In regard to "No one who is telling the truth has to use character assassination as their main defense." Adhominem is an illogical argument and carries no weight. Hamlet said, "to thine own self be true." This rings true in your message.
ReplyDeleteI had not heard this term before. Thanks. I must be careful to avoid doing this in any area of life since it is easy for emotions to be a part of responses yet emotions should not add words that taint the validity of the response. (except in a private rant :)
ReplyDeleteIt seems both dislike and affection can be equally guilty of interfering with clarity. As I write this, recent mistakes come to mind along with one impending conversation.
ad ho·mi·nem/ˈad ˈhämənəm/
An argument based on the failings of an adversary rather than on the merits of the case, the issue or the position taken; a logical fallacy that involves a personal attack.
1: appealing to feelings or prejudices rather than intellect
2: marked by or being an attack on an opponent's character rather than by an answer to the contentions made