She asked If I was looking for love.
I said, since your impatient insistence is rushing me into the hurry-up-and-answer-corner of yes or no, the quick answer is no. She walked away, unwilling to play the first instance things didn't go her way.
Why would I go out looking for something if I don't know what it looks like?
This thing laying here, I said, as I picked up an item on the desk, could be worth a million dollars, but if I don't understand that value in monetary terms, then I will ignore it and leave it for someone else to recognize and treasure.
I paused as heads nodding seemed to agree.
Ears and eyebrows perked up, waiting for me to say, who it is, I've found love with.
Love has to match self. This smallest of crowds seemed disappointed that the expected punch line did not come right away.
Matching self means, each person must be about the business of helping each other become better versions of self. No, not two criminals becoming better criminals together or two racists spitting out racist children. Not someone to help wreck yourself, but someone to help rekh yourself.
Love is not looking for something in another that you can and should, get and do for yourself.
Don't look for romance if you are not romancing yourself.
Don't expect respect or for someone to treat your right if you ain't doing it for ya'self.
You want someone to be good-looking, then look good to yourself.
You want someone to have a good sense of humor, then you better already be able to make yourself laugh.
You want someone to be spontaneous. Respond instantaneously to your spirit-soul trying to make love with you constantly all day in every way to get you to go with its deeper flow and let go of mind control.
Though the small crowded room seemed to leave no room for attention to span, the few were still listening, but seemed distracted by the glare of self-reflection caused by what they just heard in a way they had not heard.
Order & Arrangement Of Life-Making & Love-Making
1. Find love in LIFE and how you LIVE, before looking for love in LOVE. (song: live and love life)2. The word Life comes before word Love. The word Love is a later spelling variation of word Life. The order is life, live, love, leap. Living life is the connection to loving life
3. The template of love. The first step back from the spelling of word love is word rume. Rume is word Roomy or Roomie. Roomie Love is self-love of the body temple with the inner temple of spirit-soul. This is the two temples, the temple-ti, the templeti, the word template.
4. The word Love as word Rume is also word Meru. Meru is the waters of the universe, a lot of room and space to expand and contract. This tells us that life needs room to grow; therefore, so does love.
a) The fuller statement comes in two parts:
Life, in order to grow, needs the roomy space of meru waters, its roomie nutrients and time to turn things into things.
Love, in order to grow, needs con-template-tive nutrition, time to digest, fully process and invest these nutrients into turning self around and around, thus by extension and connection, also turning around the condition of other selves, the world and yes, we can change the universe. Be certain to understand that if the totality of your life consists of sitting on a tree stump all day, you are changing the universe, even if that change is part of what allows things to stay the same.
a) Life Form Formed
b) Life Born, the prepubescence of life.
c) Life Reborn as Love of Self, the pubescence of life, the prepubescence of love, the first love-life.
d) Self-Love Reborn as Adult Love (Mature Love), the self-love that expands to pubescent love to include others, the second stage of love-life.
e) Then comes physical death, but the next step is not life after death, instead it is:
Death After Love-Life
This is when the spirit-soul of life returns to the tomb-womb-cocoon crematory and creatory. Loves and Lifes are separated, as in the beginning. Love, now having lost the connection to Life, becomes no more. This is why it is said there is no marriage in heaven; however this is only partially true. There is no marriage in the manner of humans in the flesh. This is marriage like the angels, the an-kars, they are repeating cycles of time who are married to the flash mob. This is marriage of spirit-souls of life clothed and/or unclothed in nu vestitures.
f) Reformulated Life Form Formed
g) Reformulated Life Born is resurrected life, reborn life, rebirth life, a kind of second life depending how you count, when you count and what you count as life and birth. This life does not contain the same exact souls of life because to each life is given according to the greater need-want incentive. Plus, even the khuti and khiuti themselves are being transformed from time to time as they learn and grow, inflate and deflate, from life experiences and love-life experiences. This last stage of Reformulated Life Born, is kina akin to The Second Time Around.
Bonusing In The Rounding Out
For those seeking to develop more adeptness in becoming better versions of themselves, the word Like is Liku is Riku is Kiur is Khiur is Khiurnm.Thus, TO LIKE someone or something has two primary senses:
1. Optimal - to recognize your circle-mate, soulmate, cellmate. Therefore, have self-respect, which is only possible through respect for all others. At this point in the reclamation process, this is shortest definition of word self-respect.
2. Suboptimal – using miseducation misinformation misunderstanding fragmented logic to decide and choose who and what to appreciate, enjoy and play favorites with. Thus, who and what to give an abberant form of respect. This leads to Like and Dislike. This is partiality, because, based on like and dislike, so also comes respect and disrespect. This grows mould and molds into Love and Hate. In the optimal context, seeing the likeness in one thing does not lead to dislike, disrepect or hate for the other thing.
