If you do not understand racism (white supremacy) and how it works, everything else you understand will only confuse you. - Neely Fuller

We need something to clarify everything for us, because we get confused...but if we use the concept of Asili, we will understand that whatever it is they are doing, whatever terms they use, however they come at you, you need to be thinking about what? How is this going to facilitate their power and help them to dominate me? -Marimba Ani

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

7+ Basic Signs Of Insecure Love
Unity Consciousness #335

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Insecure love is love for self, someone or something without having a clear sense of self. Insecure love is a love of limited and diminishing returns because insecure love is not rooted in and nourished by knowledge of self.

Insecure love, like all things, has identifying characteristics such as:

(1) Exhibits most of the behaviors of lower-self manipulators.
(2) Is fearful regarding love. This comes from a fearful nature in general.
(3) Denies personal and other areas of history, thus insecure love must fabricate things in order to justify the strong emotional attachment it mistakes for love.
(4) Needs to control some or all Rights Of Creation.
(5) Has no intent to enhance the relationship through rising in knowledge of self, i.e., self-improvement, personal growth or human beingness (raising more and more aspects of character from the ego level of the lower and lower self, up to the conscience level of the higher and higher self).
(6) Intentionally does things to try to keep self and others from being healthy (knowing self).
(7) The person uses a suboptimal worldview and definitions as the context for how to think and behave.

Love is a greater good;
therefore, love must serve the greater good.
This greater good must be universal since everything is related and connected.

Love Emerges From Identity

Love must be an enabler, an encourager and an enhancer of the best within creation. This requires knowledge of the best within us and the worst within us. This is known by gaining understanding through the process of knowing self.

Know yourself so, through understanding, you can know love for self and resonate with this love by continuously becoming the self you are continuously getting to know.
You will then continuously get better at knowing which vibrations inside and outside self are nutritious and healthy representations and expressions of love.

Love requires being able to see something or someone as being the same as self and deserving of all things desired for self. Insecure love does not see love this way. Insecure love does not behave this way. There are many signs. Insecure love does not pass the test of love because insecure love has not studied to gain the understanding required to improve proficiency in knowing self.