(2) Is fearful regarding love. This comes from a fearful nature in general.
(3) Denies personal and other areas of history, thus insecure love must fabricate things in order to justify the strong emotional attachment it mistakes for love.
(4) Needs to control some or all Rights Of Creation.
(5) Has no intent to enhance the relationship through rising in knowledge of self, i.e., self-improvement, personal growth or human beingness (raising more and more aspects of character from the ego level of the lower and lower self, up to the conscience level of the higher and higher self).
(6) Intentionally does things to try to keep self and others from being healthy (knowing self).
(7) The person uses a suboptimal worldview and definitions as the context for how to think and behave. Love is a greater good;
therefore, love must serve the greater good.
This greater good must be universal since everything is related and connected.
Love Emerges From Identity
Love must be an enabler, an encourager and an enhancer of the best within creation. This requires knowledge of the best within us and the worst within us. This is known by gaining understanding through the process of knowing self. Know yourself so, through understanding, you can know love for self and resonate with this love by continuously becoming the self you are continuously getting to know.You will then continuously get better at knowing which vibrations inside and outside self are nutritious and healthy representations and expressions of love. Love requires being able to see something or someone as being the same as self and deserving of all things desired for self. Insecure love does not see love this way. Insecure love does not behave this way. There are many signs. Insecure love does not pass the test of love because insecure love has not studied to gain the understanding required to improve proficiency in knowing self.
