Great Expectations (Mistakes) Of Females & MalesUnity Consciousness #1563

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(Part 9qo of 11)

This is a small sample.

Females

1. better memory
2. more skilled in the kitchen
3. better parents
4. more sensitive emotionally and to pain and to being scared
5. more caring
6. view sex as as a gift and reward to males
7. should accentuate their body parts
8. should hide their body, in general
9. pink is for females
10. should not wear pants
11. more faithful

Males

1. braver
2. stronger physically
3. should put female comfort first
4. better leaders
5. more sexually oriented and want sex more
6. should pursue females
7. should propose marriage and do so elaborately
8. should buy bigger and better gifts for anniversaries, holidays and other special occasions
9. should pay for things monetarily
10. should drive the car
11. should open doors for females
12. blue is for males
13. should not wear dresses (long clothing not sewn or tied together at the crotch)

If any of these things are manifesting as true in females and males, it is most likely due to being socialized (programmed by culture) into us. Male and female gender differences listed above are not present at birth. Are they?
Since culture teaches us how to act and what to expect from gender, culture goes astray when it mistakes gender as the primary determinative of self, of thinking and of behavior.

Furthermore, to the degree we expect any of the behaviors above based on gender, then there must be a corresponding behavior expected of the other gender.
For instance, if we expect males to open doors for females, then females should also open doors for males, or females should do something else for males.
In other words, if a female is expected to do or not do such and such, then a male should be expected to do or not do such or such or something else.
There must be balance in the requirements and expectations put on a person based on their gender.

Sem-Sen, The Two Truths

A male and a female are synonyms, the same thing in different forms. We already know this.
Males have inner mammaries (breasts) and outer genitals.
Females have outer mammaries and inner genitals.
The clitoris and uterus match the penis and scrotum. The testes with its seeds match the ovaries. The skenes gland matches the prostate gland.
One set of chromosomes is programmed differently.
The other sets of chromosomes are programmed the same.
Gender is for reproduction, not for total identity or primary identity.

Come on now! How are we supposed to progress in a healthy fashion when we are making great mistakes by holding on to great expectations of each other based on gender.