(9azv of 11)
Somewhere in the last decade, the use of the phrase “girl dad” has become popularized as a badge of honor.To me, “girl dad” is as skewed, off base, misguided and counterproductive as “single parent”, even though both are well-intentioned at the Giri So level of awareness (the superficial surface level status quo mentality of societies). Thus such terms are appropriate for the current set of conditions and tthe overall thinking and behavior of the masses.
Why use “girl dad” and not also use “boy mom”?
When we say “girl dad” we are saying it as if it is an anomaly and also an anomaly for dads to be proud to have daughters, especially all daughters and spend time with those daughters and help nurture them into balanced adults.Or is it that the unspoken norm is that we are so screwed up as people, that we can't relate properly to an opposite gender child and why adult opposite sex relationships have less than a 50% healthy success rate?
Is that why we don't say “boy dad” or “girl mom”?
Why can't each parent simply be a “child parent,” a “kid parent,” a “baby parent,” a “person parent,” a “family parent,” a parent?
Do the terms “mamma's boy” and “daddy's girl” have equal meaning?I think not.
Why are we always making unnecessary distinctions that sink into the subconscious psyche and make us focus on doofus difference more than duality sameness?
Perhaps this aspect of the pendulum swing in logic is because the abuse of the phrase “single parent” has caused it to be mostly associated with the glorifying and living martyrdom of the default custodial parent as mother. However, as Aquarius and Shu rise into newfound pubescence out of Pisces and Jackal and seek more balance with Aquaria and Ma-Tefnut, this logic is transitionary on the way to more balanced perspectives in the Great Year based renewing normal that destroys societies and creates civilizations out of the purified ashes.