Why is it, when someone tries to get you to do something, accept something or agree to something, and you say no, the other person will almost always ask, Are You Sure?
However when you say yes, they don't ask, Are You Sure?What is it about us that desires, wants and needs others to accept what we offer without question, thought or hesitation?....But oh no, resist, deny, hesitate and the person will treat you like you don't really know what you want. ...And by asking you twice is enough of a subtle manipulation to get you to do what they want you to, or what they think they know you want better than you know for yourself.
How do we turn the tables on those who second question our no's but not our yes's?How do we get them to stop it already?
So, though it's easy to just say no, be prepared to say it two three four five times, because the opposing spirit is saying, please me. No, No thanks, Nope, Naw, Heck no, F*ck No.
It's rude to ask people are they sure, when they say no. You are questioning their decision-making. This is okay as long as you also ask, are you sure, when they say yes.
We could turn the tables and ask the person, are you sure you should keep asking me, are you sure?
I guarantee you, if you do, the person will look at you as if you are being rude to them for what they perceive and believe is trying to be nice.
