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Why is it that most of us are okay with divorce laws, but don't have a problem with there being no similar amount of “all up in my business” marriage laws?In other words,
we think it's okay for the favored group, hiding behind the word “government,”to impose their logic on our divorce but we don't expect this or defer to “the government” when it comes to our marriage. We welcome the government in on the back end like some kind of 911 crisis reactive help me figure this out solution, but don't seek government assistance on the front end as some kind of 411 careful proactive help me figure this out prevention Supposedly the crazy amount of crazy divorce laws are to “protect us,” and “administer justice” on a relationship we freely chose to be in. It's practically free to get in (get married) and up to you how you seal the deal and how much it costs, but it almost impossible to get out (get divorced) without there being inescapable cost or you being in control.
Instead of physically kicking against the pricks of sick logic, I say, if it's okay for there to be a bunch of divorce laws, then it should be okay, and expected, for there to be a bunch of marriage laws and a bunch of romantic relationship laws and dating laws.
Perhaps then, all this would make unnecessary a bunch of laws involving children.