How To Know Who People Are In 4 Easy StepsUnity Consciousness #2309

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(9aqs of 11)

1. When someone tells you who they are, don't believe them.

2. When they show you who they are, you have initial proof of concept.

3. Now you know. Or so you think.

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Keep In Mind, that what people show in the beginning is often an attempt to convince you of what they've told you.
Pretenders cannot keep up the charade for more than 3 to 18 months. Not even unintentional pretenders. The actual length is determined by how much interaction you have with them. The more frequent the interaction, the less of a need there is to continue the charade because after being around a pretender for a length of time, and you are still in the relationship, then the pretender knows you are convinced, thus no need to pretend, be guarded or cautious because, no matter what, you will believe what they continue to tell you based on the false hopes of what they initially showed. This is what happened to the Africans in North America when white pillaging pilgrims came. We still haven't learned our lesson because we keep hope alive and giving thanksgiving, honoring their way of living based on deceptive friendship.

4. So first you have to go through that initial period of interaction, then comes the relaxing, then comes the second period of interaction and double-checking to make sure you are thinking clearly and haven't missed basic obvious clues. Throughout this entire process, because life happens, you will have enough varied information to come to the correct conclusion. The reason you won't follow that correct conclusion is because you have not spent enough time getting to know self.