(9apv of 11)
When you look in the mirror and don't like what you see, you have a choice to self-correct or self-deflect.Both are continuous projects.
Self-deflection turns away from the mirror and looks at others to try to make self feel better by looking for a lower curve to grade self on. This also mutates and necessitates the perp to participate in perpetuating making others look, and hopefully feel, worse.
The self-deflector fails at easing and erasing internal pains because they refuse to release the injuries of stigmatism.