We can't always use the positive approach to love. The Creator doesn't and neither can we.
Sometimes we have to express the suboptimal in order to get us to seek the optimal. This seeking causes us to critically analyze self, which is an ongoing process that, just the act of doing so, transforms logic for the better.
Sometimes the catalyst for the process must be tougher love that leads us to tender love.
Sometimes tougher love calls you a nigger so you can reconfigure and understand you are a naga, so eventually you will act like a nga.
Sometimes you have to be turned off to be turned on to something else.
Sometimes you have to be fired, to move lower to reacquaint with roots, so you can understand your potential and get back on track to a healthier destinypurpose. How many times has it been said, “you can make it if you try?”
How long have we not tried and remained satisfied?
Tender love is not always the answer.
Sometimes tender love is the problem. Don't we know we have to use encouragement and discouragement.
We are addicted to the sweet talk of tender love. Now it's time to discourage its use when tender love prevents us from reaching for other needed nutrition.
